If you’re one of the many people who find yourself on a pedestal, you know how annoying it can be.
The more of you who are being told to “get over it” or “do better,” the more you’re left with the feeling that you’re being judged.
It’s not fair.
And it can make you feel like a loser.
We’ve seen this in real life, too.
As we’ve heard from so many women on Twitter, a lot of us are just looking for a quick fix to get the “right” look in the office or on the dating scene.
And sometimes it’s not easy to find one.
But we can fix it.
Here are five strategies to help you avoid being an asshole in public and in business.
Stop complaining about the job.
We’re all human beings, but we should not be making excuses for ourselves.
Instead, we need to stop feeling bad about our work.
Take a moment to think about why you’re complaining about something, and then work to fix it, right?
Recognize the difference between complaining and being a jerk.
A lot of people are so used to having the world judge them for how they dress, their personality or their looks that they assume they’re the only ones complaining about things.
But it’s more than just the job title.
Many of us work with people all day long, so there’s a constant cycle of judging and responding to people.
We should be doing something about it. 3.
Listen to your body language.
Many times we judge ourselves in a way that’s inappropriate.
For example, we might feel guilty about making an awkward or uncomfortable comment about someone, but the fact is that we are acting in our body language when we’re talking.
We want to sound like we’re happy or happy to have our thoughts and feelings heard.
Instead of giving us the benefit of the doubt, listen to your own body language to see if you’re making the right judgment.
If you see yourself making a mistake, don’t be afraid to correct yourself, even if it means making a comment or a face that doesn’t match the person you’re talking to. 4.
Find a way to get along with others.
If it’s the job of your boss or your boss’s boss to tell you what to do, why do you need to be the one to tell them what to look like?
A good place to start is with yourself.
Are you trying to look your best or make the best impression?
If you feel that your work doesn’t fit into their expectations, try to work with them to change the way you act and think.
When it comes to the dating world, it’s important to remember that you are not the boss of your partner.
You should have the power to make changes and have them take responsibility for them.
Don’t take the easy way out.
If someone asks you to take a picture, or to send them a message, or if you ask someone for advice on something, take the opportunity to listen to what they have to say.
When you hear something that makes you feel bad, ask yourself what you should have done differently or how you can help.
You might be surprised at how often you just can’t do what they want you to do.
But instead of feeling like you’re not good enough or doing something wrong, you can make things better.
For more on this topic, read our article on The Art of Being An Asshole: How to Fix It.